Back Online….dating

For those who have read the last couple of my posts, I am amidst the “getting over your ex-husband’s new girlfriend moving in phase” of our separation. Let’s just add ladies, that he and I are still legally married.  I am thinking that the best means possible of working through this is to get myself [...]

Some say…

“Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect.  It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections…”

New Year, New Opportunities

I recently found out some great news that will have me moving to a new city in the new year. Not only am I excited about this new phase in my life, but I’m probably most looking forward to the new people it will bring, both friends and possible partners! For the past few years [...]

Quote of the day

Do not read and reread a man’s text message, or e-mail, or listen to his voice message, over and over again. Do not try to delve into his words for hidden meaning, or call your friends to get their opinions on “what he really means.” It’s a message, not the Constitution—you’re not supposed to study [...]

Time…help please!

Well the weekend has passed…and I’m still alive and haven’t yet been checked into a facility requiring that I be supervised and contained in a padded room! There have been tears, many I must confess, dreams/night terrors but more importantly, a lot of girltalk and self-reflection. So, the HD status as of 48 pre-xmas is, [...]

Love at first sight…or love that grows over time?

So I read an article that makes me wonder…if we’re looking for love, do we want to fall in love at first sight…or do we want love that develops over time? The article states that “when it comes to falling in love, some people charge out of their corner only to get knocked out in [...]

New Year, New Me!

As a new year approaches I have been thinking about this last year’s dating situations that I have found myself in,  and have realized that I have spent much of the year worrying (ok maybe obsessing) over men who, in the end, never felt the same way for me.  A few months ago a guy friend [...]

Quote of the day

Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens,  but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in.. They stand [...]

Prepared but not yet Ready

Well, I knew this was coming and I had prepared for it..or so I thought.  I just hours ago found out that my ex’s hot little number is moving in this weekend. I knew this would happen eventually, but until this moment I hadn’t visualized her living in MY old house, chatting with MY former [...]

How do I make it something more?

I recently met two guys in sort of work related situations.  At first glance, they are both cute and interesting and I’d be keen to find out more about them, but the problem is I’ve only met each of them once and it was related to work…so question to all you hopefuls out there, how [...]