Imagine…

Imagine that you love someone.  Sure you think they’re cute.  But you love him beyond the physical. You love where he comes from, who he is, and who he will become. You love his strengths and his weaknesses. His intelligence and his humour. You love his stupid jokes, the way he makes you laugh, the [...]

Love at first sight…or love that grows over time?

So I read an article that makes me wonder…if we’re looking for love, do we want to fall in love at first sight…or do we want love that develops over time? The article states that “when it comes to falling in love, some people charge out of their corner only to get knocked out in [...]

Quote of the Day

I wonder why love is so often equated with joy when it is everything else as well.  Devastation, balm, obsession, granting and receiving excessive value, and losing it again.  It is recognition, often of what you are not but might be.  It sears and it heals.  It is beyond pity and above law.  It can [...]

What do you do when “the one” decides he’s found “the one”…and it isnt you?

“Just wanted to fill you in on the latest – I’m engaged.  No date set yet”.  The man of my dreams was letting me know that he had found the woman of his…and it wasn’t me.  Via text.   After a year of fellowship and friendship, road trips, hockey games and missing out on a magical moment [...]

Quote of the Day

So my thing is quotes…so here’s a “quote of the day” in honour of human rights day 2009, albeit a day late… The demand for equal rights in every vocation of life is just and fair; but after all, the most vital right is the right to love and be loved.                                                         -Emma Goldman, writer [...]