Quote of the day

I believe sex between two people is a beautiful thing.  Between five people it’s fantastic. lol Woody Allen

Tossing out all notions of logic

So it’s a common belief that we become more rational and wise with age right?  Why is it then as adult women in the dating world we seem to toss away the concept of logic completely! A fellow hopeful and I were talking, and subsequently laughing hysterically the other night, after discussing a thought we’d [...]

Quote of the Day

Energy has to be both given and received in a relationship, otherwise it’s just an addiction.

Quote of the Day

Love your inner world and your outer world will follow.

Have I been creating my own memories…?!

So I gave it another go; met up with a guy I met on an online dating site.  Why not; he could spell, emailed me promptly, looked moderately attractive via his slightly blurred profile pictures and seemed like he shared some of my interests.  I went into the date with no expectations due to the [...]

Back Online….dating

For those who have read the last couple of my posts, I am amidst the “getting over your ex-husband’s new girlfriend moving in phase” of our separation. Let’s just add ladies, that he and I are still legally married.  I am thinking that the best means possible of working through this is to get myself [...]

Some say…

“Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect.  It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections…”

Time…help please!

Well the weekend has passed…and I’m still alive and haven’t yet been checked into a facility requiring that I be supervised and contained in a padded room! There have been tears, many I must confess, dreams/night terrors but more importantly, a lot of girltalk and self-reflection. So, the HD status as of 48 pre-xmas is, [...]

Prepared but not yet Ready

Well, I knew this was coming and I had prepared for it..or so I thought.  I just hours ago found out that my ex’s hot little number is moving in this weekend. I knew this would happen eventually, but until this moment I hadn’t visualized her living in MY old house, chatting with MY former [...]

Quote of the day; Courage to carry on

Courage doesn’t always roar.  Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying “I will try again tomorrow.”