Making yourself happy first!

It’s widely said that you can’t find love with someone else until you love yourself.  I have always believed this, but it has never really been a problem for me, as I have for the most part been a confident and self-assured person.  But this has all changed.  Not due to a bad break-up or [...]

When you’re misreading all the right signs

For those of you following us on Twitter, you’ll know I recently met a boy at a bar…a very cute boy….but that doesn’t really matter cause he was a dud! All the signs were there that he was interested, but I obviously misread them, because after taking my number, he hasn’t called (and it’s been [...]

New Year, New Opportunities

I recently found out some great news that will have me moving to a new city in the new year. Not only am I excited about this new phase in my life, but I’m probably most looking forward to the new people it will bring, both friends and possible partners! For the past few years [...]

How do I make it something more?

I recently met two guys in sort of work related situations.  At first glance, they are both cute and interesting and I’d be keen to find out more about them, but the problem is I’ve only met each of them once and it was related to work…so question to all you hopefuls out there, how [...]

Chasing the One!

Okay, sorry for the film and tv examples, but I was watching How I Met Your Mother (love that show!), the one where Ted is trying to get his window of opportunity with the “girl next door”.  Although in the end it doesn’t work out, he still says he misses “chasing the one” and I [...]

Relationships and Power Struggles

“The power of the relationship lies with whoever cares less.” This insightful quote came from the film Ghosts of Girlfriends Past, and although I didn’t think too highly of the film, I thought this sentence was spot on….unfortunately! It’s a sad reality that the early days of a relationship are a constant assessment of each [...]