Quote of the day

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. [...]

Waiting for the other shoe to drop…..

I consider myself an optimist, always trying to see the positive in all situations.  But when it comes to dating I find myself taking on more of a self-preservation attitude, which leads me to believe that all good things must and will come to an end.  Since my last blog about my new guy he and I have [...]

Quote of the day

Do not read and reread a man’s text message, or e-mail, or listen to his voice message, over and over again. Do not try to delve into his words for hidden meaning, or call your friends to get their opinions on “what he really means.” It’s a message, not the Constitution—you’re not supposed to study [...]

New Year, New Me!

As a new year approaches I have been thinking about this last year’s dating situations that I have found myself in,  and have realized that I have spent much of the year worrying (ok maybe obsessing) over men who, in the end, never felt the same way for me.  A few months ago a guy friend [...]

Quote of the day

Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens,  but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in.. They stand [...]

Taking the bull by it’s horns….

Tonight I did something that I would not normally do….I made the first “move” and called a guy…shock and awe!!! Ordinarily I believe in the notion that if a guy is really interested he’ll call, text, ask you out first.  But today I decided that I’m tired of waiting for things to happen to me and realized that [...]

Another Quote of the Day….

Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. [...]

Is timing everything?

I don’t know about all of you but I’m getting sick of people telling me that when it comes to meeting the right guy “timing is everything”.  Everytime some married friend says that to me I can’t help but think when the hell is the ‘timing’ going to be right for me? Everytime a guy tells me [...]

Friendly encounter or missed opportunity?

I remember watching an Oprah episode on good places to meet single men.  An expert she had on told her viewers that if you’re looking for an eligible bachelor try hanging out at Home Depot or going to sporting events.  She suggests that being in places that have a higher number of men will surely increase your [...]